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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 5'7 guy. I've been short my entire life, so it's not like some kind of affliction I just came down with. When you're short, you know you're working at a disadvantage perception-wise because it's come up numerous times over the course of your life. A guy like me finds way to compensate for it by being charming, funny, passionate, having money, or what have you.

I think it says a lot about you that you dated this guy in the first place. You're clearly not shallow or else you wouldn't have tried in the first place. I don't think that your dating him was charity or pity, but I feel like it would turn into that if you stay with him even though you're not attracted to him. [b]You don't have to crush him and tell him he's too short. Just tell him it isn't working out for you[/b] or that you don't feel enough of a connection.

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I disagree. Just tell him that it's his height. I'm sure he'll suspect it anyway. He's probably be dumped by hundreds of women that say "it's not you, it's me".[/quote]

This is unnecessarily unkind. A vague statement of not feeling the intangible attraction is better than specifically pointing out of physical attributes you don't like.  Your bugs may be someone else's features.[/quote]

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