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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cheated on my husband with a colleague who is my superior and much older than me. I am not sure what happened with my brain but it was as if it was not me. I do not recognize myself, and looking back can’t believe that this happend. It’s like I was under a spell or replaced by a different person. But it was me. It has been a year since. I love my husband. He does not know. I still work with that person. I despise him. I hate everything about him: the way he looks, the way he dresses, the way he smells, the way he looks at me. After the relationship ended (I ended it when the fog cleared), we tried to stay friendly and professional. We work together on projects. I no longer can work with him as I recall the disgusting thing that happened and die inside every time. He still loves me I think as he does strange things that show it (adopts the foods that I eat, exercise I do, reads books I read, etc. and hen tells me about it). He stops by every day to talk. I can’t look at him. Every time I see him, I beg him to please leave in my head. And then his smell stays in my office, and it’s intolerable.

How can I heal? I know that what I did is wrong. I know I am responsible and am a horrible person. What can I do to be happy with my husband again? Please share how you healed if you were in a similar situation.

To others who consider cheating, please do yourself a favor and don’t. You will thank me later.
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I cheated on someone in college, and I was cheated on in college.   It was awful but I realized I would never do that again .  Use right hand and internet but never lie to partner [/quote]

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