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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Ok

Just met with lawyer. She looked over my agreement. Because neither of us are from DC the agreement states that one can move out of the area if the other agrees to it. If not then you have to go to mediation. If we can't agree at mediation then we go to court. I am not sure what to ask for at mediation. The whole enchilada? Like ask for full custody etc?
Whatever I ask for, I am sure she will not agree to it. The next step is to go to court.
FYI the city is Atlanta.

So I asked my ex to meet tomorrow to discuss (she has no idea I visited with a lawyer today--hell she probably saw one too).

Trust me I do not get freaked out/nervous/on anything, but I am on this topic.
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OP, I would try to work out a custody split that is proportional to what you have now, but keeps the children with you for school--eg, I am open to pretty much whatever you rporpose, but the kids remain in their school in this city.  Keeping the kids in their current school, with their current friends and life should be the #1 priority.

If you factor in 2.5 months summer, 3 weeks at xmas and T day, and random long weekends, you are getting close to 70/30. She can then fly out on weekends and see them,and you can agree to make arrangements so that she has access to the kids easily. You can go to mediation, but there is really only two solutions for the kids--with her or with you. i have no idea what a judge would say but you can definitely document all of the involvement you currently have with the kids.

Good luck. [/quote]

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