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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey guys this is OP.

Well she sent me an email.  Like I said earlier she is the worst about communication.  Anyway she has already enrolled them in another school 1500 miles away. And she would like to discuss this week.  I told her hell FING NO.  
More background the reason she said she had an affair is because I was drinking a lot more than normal.  I would say that is kind of true but it was never brought up.  We would both go out and drink.  I would have to attend a happy hour a lot so obviously I had a few drinks.  Anyway, I never came close to cheating on her and I wish I was not an idiot and questioned her more about her behavior.  
I did have too much to drink one day when it was my turn to have the kids and one of my kids called mom.  It was my fault and I admitted it.  We didnt go anywhere once I got them.  We chilled and watched movies.

The ex and new fiance are getting married this Summer.  I really do not care about that.  I just would like to be in the same city as my kids.  That is all I live for.  The last two years since we have been divorced I pick them up or drop them off from school at least 6 times a week.  I take my son to every sports practice  soccer and baseball (I am the coach of his baseball team) I am assistant coach on my daughter's softball team.  Not sure what else I can offer.

My attorney said that in our agreement (which by the way switched lawyers--considering he was absent) said that to relocate we have to go to mediation.

This sucks guys.  Also for as much as DCUM gets ripped there is some really good advice in this thread.

What else?
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My sibling was able to stop his the from moving out of state.  You need to promptly go to court to prevent her from doing this. She can't simply kidnap them and can get in a lot of trouble.  Also, it's apparent there is going to be all kinds of upheaval in their lives by this change. It wouldn't hurt to get another attorney's opinion.  As for drinking too much etc. still not an excuse to cheat. Be thankful you are rid of this horrible person and didn't waste years! That is something to celebrate.[/quote]

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