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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, but not for most divorced dads in their late 40s and 50s. This is not the reality of dating after a middle aged divorce. If you have kept yourself in excellent shape, are still viril while using a condom, have a pleasane personality, and still handsome, then yes, someone will find you attractive. [/quote]

No there are not many 40-50 year women looking for sex. These women looking for other things. Sex really drops off to nothing for most women. It’s a combination of hormones and lack of use. What comes first who knows but the end result in the same. You wake up one day and realize you have not had sex for a year and you are okay with it. [/quote]

Eh, so what. Divorced men looking for sex are not chasing 40-50 year old women. Waste of time, not attractive. Since these men just divorced one of those wrinkled sagging harridans, why would they want another one? If you just sold a 2003 Ford Explorer because it's an old piece of junk, you don't turn around and buy a 2002 Pontiak Aztek (another old piece of junk).

[quote=Anonymous]True but it's even harder in the 50's. Chances are you won't find a life partner so it's something to weigh carefully. If everything else in the marriage is good I'd say stay and work it out.[/quote]

A life partner? The supposed "life partner" you have now has decided, on your behalf, that the rest of your life should not involve sex (if you spend it with her, anyway). Often as not, that decision is the prelude to her cheating on you and/or leaving, which she can do at any time. That should tell you how valid the life partner concept is. You are far better off having a series of non-marital relationships that can be ended at the convenience of either party.

And oh by the way, it is [i]never [/i]true that "everything else in the marriage is good but the bedroom is dead".[/quote]

Divorced men in their 40s qnd 50s dating much younger women will quickly find themselves paying for additional children.  It happened to a guy I know, a 53 year old with a less than one year old right after a divorce.  The mom must have smelled him coming down the street.[/quote]

Very common. Why my one friend made sure her STBX got fixed. They wanted to make sure to protect their family. Last weekend I ran into a old friend I haven't seen in years. Her husband divorced her to date a much younger woman at age 48. Now at fifty he has a toddler. It's a big mess, and doubtful he'll ever retire. I honestly don't know how he let that happen. He has 3 kids with his ex wife. [/quote]

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