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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]B and D, having affairs or divorcing when the kids are grown -- in these options, you are paying for your wife to live comfortably in your house when she despises you and provides little or no value to your life. Plus when you eventually divorce, your retirement savings and the marital estate will be larger than they are now, so she'll get more of your wealth.

Sack up and pull the plug.[/quote]

Second marriages fail at a greater rate. It will be a big financial hit. Have an affair and you will likely damage your relationship with the kids and others. If you can't work it out at least divorce amicably. [/quote]

Second marriages? Who said anything about marrying again. Learn your lesson and [i]don't do that again[/i].

My point was that the financial hit is [i]larger if you wait[/i]. Divorce now is always cheaper than divorce later.

I also did not say "don't divorce amicably".

Sack up and pull the plug. Do it as soon as possible and as amicably as possible, but do it.[/quote]

The problem is divorced guys want the benefits of being married without the commitment. If you truly want just a sexual relationship with a woman, offer to "sponsor" someone and get your needs met. [/quote]

LMAO the whole reason they get divorced is they made the commitment but[i] didn't get[/i] the supposed benefits of marriage.

Actual "benefits" of marriage: woman who loses interest in you, gives you once a month pity sex if at all, doesn't do anything around the house, is expensive to get rid of, can cheat on you and leave you without fear of punishment. In short, a shit deal for men.

And no, in this day and age, there is no need to pay for sex. It's out there in the wild, more or less free!

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Yes, but not for most divorced dads in their late 40s and 50s. This is not the reality of dating after a middle aged divorce. If you have kept yourself in excellent shape, are still viril while using a condom, have a pleasane personality, and still handsome, then yes, someone will find you attractive. [/quote]

True but it's even harder in the 50's. Chances are you won't find a life partner so it's something to weigh carefully. If everything else in the marriage is good I'd say stay and work it out.[/quote]

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