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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is a kind, sweet man but he does not clean up after himself or do pretty much anything around the house. I am a sahm to three young kids nd I need some help. Conversations have changed nothing. I do 95% of childcare, chores, yard, car, grocery, cooking. We outsource as much as we can afford but it’s not enough. I am so resentful about it and we fight about every other week. I don’t know what else to do and I think he’s hopeless. Can someone help me understand this? The bottom line is I feel like he doesn’t love or respect me enough to try to help although he says verbally differently.

I am finding myself attracted to other men because of this and I’m ashamed to admit that I have a couple of flirty text convos going with other men.

I wonder if my life would be better just living alone and sharing custody and dating occasionally. I feel like I have a 4th child in my DH. [/quote]

He should clean up after himself. And he sure isn't a yard guy. Hire someone for that. Everything else you should be able to do.  That's fair imo.

Look at divorced people you know. There's a reason most 2nd marriages fail at a greater rate.  Kids going back and fourth, steps they don't want, custody and court issues, former ex wives and tons of other unpleasant stuff you can't always foresee. I think you need a serious reality check.[/quote]

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