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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband was married before for 17 years. No kids. She negotiated no alimony but 30 percent of his pension. We had a pension meeting last year and DH is due to get 8,300.00 a month and 1/3 of it goes out the window. At the time he thought he was being smart by not giving her a percentage of his 401k and he didn't even think his pension would be around. [i] She took a gamble and it worked.[/i] Its [i]odd because he hasn't seen her or given her a dime in 14 years but she will have this parachute coming to her soon[/i]. [/quote] Good for her. Your reticence and thinly-veiled resentment as a second spouse at sharing any of your husband's financial gain with the first spouse, is the reason that every intelligent, longtime, first spouse -- particularly one who shares children with their ex-, and who has given up the most important years of their career to support their family, and their ex-'s career, both personally and logistically -- will negotiate a generous division of assets, child support, and long term alimony.[/quote] But none of that matters to the new wife. She wants all of it. [/quote]
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