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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. Can anyone here understand what it’s like when a man uses money to treat you like a child? He sees it as protecting me and giving me a comfortable life. I know that. I know he thinks we have a great marriage but that’s because he almost never looks at things from my perspective. I see now that he treats me like a child - it’s a form of control and I see that I allowed myself to be stunted.[/quote] While I sympathize with you, if you don’t take the money there is a very good chance that you won’t have enough to retire on and will end up burdening your children down the line. You want to start over like you are in your 20s but you need to accept that that time in your life is gone. Mourn that fact if you need to but it is what it is. [/quote]
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