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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I moved after the wedding and was giving it a year. Right after the year is up I stupidly stopped the pill and got pregnant the first time....I thought I was going back on birth control during the act itself. I got pregnant and lived out of state. I could not leave due to possible custody issues. Took 8 years to get back here. Now I can actually consider leaving because I am in the place I want to live permanently. I could not even consider leaving when I was in another state. [/quote] These were all choices. That's what you aren't getting, OP. You didn't have to have that child. You chose to go off birth control. You moved. Stop being a victim and own it! If you want to go, then leave. No one is forcing you to do anything. Stop whining.[/quote] [b]You really think this? She has clearly "owned" it numerous times. Go yell at the wind. She's simply offering answers to questions and figuring out the pros and cons of leaving versus staying. There is no right answer[/b]. [/quote] +1 She's owned it since her initial post. At this point she's just answering questions, I haven't seen her whine yet.[/quote]
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