Reply to How do you know if your marriage is dead beyond repair

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How do you know if your marriage is dead beyond repair—and do you stay for kids?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP what is your plan if you leave? Are you hoping to find someone more compatible and remarry? Are you the type who says you really just want to live alone and will never remarry again, but maybe you'll date?
If the former....honestly based on what you've said it sounds like you have some serious issues that you need to deal with with a therapist. If what you've said is true, you jumped into an unhappy and codependent relationship and stayed there for years, continuing to get yourself more and more invested in life with him while knowing even since 4 months in that it's not what you wanted. That's...not healthy. What makes you think you'd do any better the next time?
And if the second...you yourself have said he's a great partner/roommate/co-parent. If you're not leaving to hope you meet someone better to build a life with, why not do what many people do and stay in an unfulfilling but ultimately fine marriage? Do you thing, live your life, don't destroy your kids' lives.[/quote]

OP here: I would never be interested in remarrying or trying to fall in love again. Maybe a FWB arrangement but no interest in a long-term relationship again. I am fine on my own. [/quote]

If that's the case I guess I don't see why you're in any big rush to leave [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics