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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For better or for worse.
For richer or for poorer.
In sickness and in health.

Til death do us part.

- signed, grownups[/quote]

Where does abuse fit in there?[/quote]

Dr. Laura tells us the three As justify divorce:  adultery, abuse, and addiction

Now addiction, I think that's debatable as it falls under the sickness and health clause.
Even Jesus said adultery was grounds for divorce. "And I say to you: Whoever divorces his wife, [b]except for unchastity,[/b] and marries another, commits adultery" (emphases added).
Abuse, clearly, you have an obligation to get out.

But what is not debatable in the above vows?  Getting fat, being busy with a baby. or not being so horny anymore are not grounds for divorce.  
Knocking up another lady is....
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Oh, wow. Dr. Laura and Jesus say ... well then if they say it, it is sure to be right.

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I think it's so interesting that he/she quotes Jesus but then says if you're being abused, you have an OBLIGATION to get out." What a disgusting, heartless thing to say. People who are abuse have no OBLIGATIONS from Jesus or anyone else. I just hope they CAN escape. It is not easy, and no one who has been in a marriage like this can truly understand how hard it is. People like this are trapped, filled with shame and fear - fear, for a good reason.

I'm appalled. I don't know who you are, PP #2, but you are a real piece of work, judging divorced people and telling abused women that they have an obligation to get out, like it's as easy as paying taxes or taking your vitamins. You are a moron, and that's transparent to most of the readers here. But I just hope that your nasty words are not being read by any vulnerable mother who is in an abusive reltaionship.

OH, and let's just see how Jesus treats YOU when you die. Because you don't have one ounce of human decency, and it's not going to be pretty.

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