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[quote=Anonymous]OP, did you discuss this idea with MIL in advance, or did you issue invitations at the same time to everyone at once, including your MIL? Was she surprised by this invitation? I think that when someone has had everyone to their house for a particular holiday every year for a number of years, it makes sense to check in with them ahead of time with a suggestion of a change. By sending out invitations so far ahead of time, it looks as though you are trying to get so far ahead of the curve that no one else could possibly invite anyone before you. If you did let her know before inviting her or anyone else, good for you for being courteous. If not, and you just sent out invitations really early to get a jump on her to make sure she couldn't possibly invite the others first, then she probably feels pretty blindsided and hurt. [/quote]
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