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I think the quote in bold is what makes the PP a gold digger, and she's inferring the same mentality to OP's ex, true or not. [/quote]

[b]I'm saying he's old, not particularly successful, and based on this thread not emotionally or financially generous with his stressed out, much younger, broke GF. [/b] In Dan Savage terms he violated the Campsite Rule.  What do you think OP brought to the table, if I'm wrong?[/quote]

You don't get it do you?  You're proving my point for me and you think you've got the winning point?  It doesn't matter how much of a loser you think OP is, how you think $90k is "not particularly successful" and how you think 35 is "old," you're just proving that OP's ex was with him for the money, and when that didn't pan out, she dropped him like a hot rock.  Ergo, he dodged a bullet.

Jesus, you are dim.[/quote]

He's ELEVEN YEARS OLDER THAN HER.  He started dating her when she was 21 and he was 32.  He's old [b]compared [/b]to his ex.  He violated the campsite rule, admits that he wasn't emotionally supportive of her, and wouldn't help her out the one time she asked for it.  [b]I'm not dim, kiddo.  I'm just not deluded. [/b]

And you're the one trying to paint her as a femme fatale targeting his wealth, which is why the fact that he makes $90k at 35 matters.  That's not gold digging.  That's a basic "I have a college degree" salary in DC, and the fact that she's still in school is not because she's vamping for time to find her meal ticket, it's because he was dating someone ELEVEN YEARS YOUNGER THAN HIM.

If you think he dodged a bullet, why are you so very, very mad?  Celebrate!  I'm sure another lovely young woman will come his way in no time flat.[/quote]

:lol: Um, you're the one using all caps, you think I'm mad?  I'm not, I promise, just really surprised at times by how much stupid there is out there.  I mean you're literally trying to say this GF *wasn't* gold digging but you keep talking about how OLD (comparatively, whatever!) and "unsuccessful" OP is and how he should have just paid for the CC so she wouldn't leave him.

I can't even.

And um, I call BS on the you "making 3x more than your DH" nonsense, with reasoning skills like that.  Unless your DH makes $5,000 a year or something like that  :lol: [/quote]

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