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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know...I disagree a little with others here. Does her career have a lot of potential salary increases? If not... In our family, we honestly prioritize the one whose job brings home the most money and conversely, the one whose income we need the most. DH helps but I do most sick days, doctors appointments, etc. Things that could impact my reliability and performance at work. It isn't ideal, but my idealistic days are behind me and I know I don't have the energy or motivation for some dream job out there, so this works for us. I still make good money, so I can't complain. So, while it's ok that OP has to step in often, it's not ok that his work is suffering when they need his salary. With that said, my DH works equally at home once he is home. We have outsourced all we can, to avoid disagreements. And we do make time to get away. [/quote]
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