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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Keep packing and tell him he has until the end of next week. But the fact that he is essentially having to push her out, and he's the one trying to find her a job, rather than her trying to find her own job, just means you have an ongoing battle on your hands. She's going to constantly try to push those boundaries and try to get back to that comfort zone where her dad is taking care of her and you guys watch the kids while she does her own thing. And you will become the bad guy, if you aren't already.[/quote] I agree. And, to paraphrase a PP, past performance is the best indicator of future performance. There are too many things that can go wrong that will land the DD right back at her dad's feet. What if by the end of the 6 months she doesn't have a job that pays the bills? What happens if she doesn't have childcare? You don't have to break up with your BF but having your own place gives you a lot more options and flexibility. [/quote]
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