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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How the author makes assumptions based on the words of cheaters is a real stretch. Cheaters have been known to lie![/quote]

It would be interesting to know if a study has ever been done on cheaters that has actually gotten to the real truth rather than the stories created by cheaters to in some way justify their cheating. Cheaters tend to blame others for their failures. [/quote]

I don't think there is any "real truth" there.  The only real truth is that some people view sex outside of marriage as OK, and some do not.  This is why you have married men (and women) with regular sex at home who still get it elsewhere.  Or not.  It is either morally acceptable to you (and then you get it, given the opportunity), or it is not, and you don't.  If you think it's OK to sleep with other people, then any reason is a good enough reason. We had a bad argument, my tea was cold, etc. [/quote]
This thread is NOT about people who "have regular sex at home" so your statements about morality do not really apply. This thread is about the obvious consequences of a marriage where sexual needs are NOT being met... ie, the normal party finds it elsewhere.
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No, not really.  The OP of this thread is about sleeping with married men and the stories they tell.  The woman in the article only knows what her married lovers tell her. [/quote]
On what basis would you NOT believe these men? Most of the women here on DCUM routinely avoid sex (with husband). The story checks out. Even the harpies on this thread screaming "these men are liars!" aren't denying their own loss of desire.[/quote]

It sounds a lot more sympathetic to say "my wife doesn't have sex with me" than to say "I have regular sex with my wife but would like to sleep with you as well."  That's why. [/quote]
Do you regularly initiate sex with your husband? Didn’t think so. [/quote]

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