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[quote=Anonymous]There are men willing to put up with inattentive ADD, because I, the DW, am married to one. I’m not as bad as your DH, but my DH still has to remind me to do stuff. And is perpetually closing cabinet doors and drawers, tidying up my messes and making a todo list for me (and making another one when I lose the original one).

The thing is, I know I have ADD and I know I struggle and I know it’s hard on DH and I know there are areas that he will have to lead/parent. So I don’t get offended when he reminds me for the 50th time to do the taxes. And I do my best to be value-added in other ways.

I know you are at the end of your rope. But there are a few things you have to do. 
1) quit being contemptuous to DH for you DD sake. Seeing that kind of behavior is setting her up to find a relationship when she’s older where either her or her partner will be contemptuous to each other. 
2) tell DH that you are frustrated and going to divorce him if he doesn’t get his sh!t together. Tell him he probably has ADD, needs to get diagnosed and on Meds. His responsibility. Also, find/suggest a Life Coach that specializes in ADHD to help him come up with strategies that work for him. Even if you do end up divorced, the Meds and skills he learns from a life coach will help him take care of your daughter solo. [/quote]

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