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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife told me exactly this about a year ago. We are early 50s. Sex 3-4 times since. It sucks[/quote]

My wife tried this too, much earlier. I gave her some choices: reconsider; open marriage; leave me. She reconsidered.[/quote]

You threatened her. She thought about the lifestyle, kids, who knows.  Now she is simply preforming like a trained seal hoping you have a early demise because it's often better to be a widow than a divorcee.  I mean really who tells their partner they'd better do this OR ELSE.  That only invites deep resentments and hostility. [/quote]

I did not tell her to "do" anything. I gave her options. She choose to stay married to me, and that means a normal sex life. She could have freely decided otherwise.[/quote]

Nope you threatened her. She only has sex with you because she "has" too. [/quote]

So I should have divorced her? That's better for her... how?[/quote]

DP. Maybe you should have worked on your own technique, hygiene, or sources of resentment she might have had against you. Or you could have realized that sex is not the only reason to stay married.[/quote]

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