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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is a fallacy to believe that women aren't interested in sex in their middle ages.

I do think their is a correlation with the type of women that men choose to be their wives in their youth and their eventual decline/disinterest in sex with their marital partners. The women were probably lower libido women to begin with.

I am single and have always enjoyed good sex. So have my other single friends and single relatives. We are active, attractive, and high-earners, and have no problem finding suitable mates as we age.

So, don't give up there are plenty of us out there. Now, if you want to pull some of the "shenigans" that you are used to doing in your marriage, then stay married.

BTW, open marriages are not the answer and neither is cheating. Divorce, get your sh*t together, and meet someone who can enthusiastically meet your needs.[/quote]

You are single and no different from divorced women who find their sex drive after a divorce.  Not the same as people who have been married for 20+ yrs with children.  Get off your high horse.  You have no idea what you are talking about.[/quote]

No, mine was never lost. I dumped men who were bad in bed. I declined a marriage offers because of bad sex.  Intimacy and sex were taught to be important by both parents, so it is not something I compromise on.  I see the other end of the conversation that you are not hearing from women. For many, not all, its all a part of the game of marriage.

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So have you ever been in a relationship for 10+ yrs, lived together, commingled finances, have children and ran a household?  No.  Then you don’t know what you are talking about.  Sex in a dating relationship isn’t the same as married sex.  My DH and I had sex 5-6 times a day for the first three yrs we were together.  I am not a low libido woman but after 30 yrs, marriage and children out sex life has become nonexistent.  We are staying married because we love each other and are best friends still.

Your insights are not applicable  :roll: [/quote]

Yes, to all of them and I still have a need for sex.

The problem is you and him. After 30 years, your kids are grown, or near grown, your fiances should be stable and household chore division is a thing of the past. What is your excuse? If you need to spice things up, full swing, then solve the problem if you want to.  Either you are a low libido woman, or both are. Own it. There's nothing wrong with being low libido or choosing to decide together to not have sex in the marriage. [/quote]

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