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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP why would you divorce? Keep your finances and retirement stable. Plus you can find hobbies and other things to take you away from your DH.  Why mess up your lifestyle?

Seriously, the men you meet will all have baggage and problems. And if you don't want to date you'll have a harder time financially. I would try to put money away that he doesn't know about in case he is the one to file.  Meanwhile be happy with your life. Shouldn't take a man or relationship to do that. [/quote]

What are you still in the 1950s?  Not all men have baggage.  Remember, once a guy's kids are out of college, they have money again.  OP's youngest is going to college. She's not going to be dating someone with a toddler.[/quote]

If she dates mostly she'll meet losers. The guys with a solid retirement don't want to get married at that age nor combine finances.

It's a bigger set of problems. Unless she really hates her dh staying is a better option. Divorcing at that age may mean neither will be able to afford to retire.  Unexpected health issues also tap finances, plus her kids will still need help for sometime.  It's called REALITY.[/quote]

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