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[quote=Anonymous]As the baby gets older, these issues are going to magnify. Nip it now. Take the advice to prepare financially. You’re still postpartum with a 6-month Old. He butters up for long term inheritance and competes with his brother. He has a family, and is using it to get what he wants. Don’t accuse, but keep your eyes open, and don’t be naive. I didn’t see where you mentioned whether his family wealth supports you, but if you work, prepare for the possibility of being s single parent one day in your career decisions. I say this as a formlerly naive divorcing mom that left and was completely oblivious to all the signs that were very clear in hindsight. Also agree that you should find a good individual therapist and stick with it. Therapy with a (borderline) emotional abuser won’t work. They’ll use it against you. Not saying divorce. Just be prepared so if you find yourself on that path (there are many flags from what you share), you aren’t limited in you ability to do the greater good because you didn’t plan for having the resources to execute. 1yr living expenses, $15k min for divorce attorney, document your parenting time and how you allocate responsibilities now. Baby fever that has dad on a high can wear off, what will be left to salvage then? I hope things bode well for you.[/quote]

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