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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.   This thread has gone off the relationship topic, but has great information for me.  Thanks.

It seems like requesting/demanding (if the request is not granted) accommodations could help.

I see two areas:

1) While she is in intensive therapy, ensure there is at least one non-therapy day to complete the assignment.  Practically, that would mean if the teacher assigns something on monday, she would have until at least Sat. to get it in.

2) Reduce the audio-distractions from other classmates during exams.  The audio distractions render her unable to concentrate, and become the focus of her energy.  Practically, this would probably mean either allowing her to take the test in an isolated setting or use noise attenuating headgear.

Does this sound reasonable?[/quote]

Honestly, she can have as long as she needs to get it in. While my DD was dealing with a medical illness and was in and out of school, she was 3 months behind at times.  All you need to ask for is extended deadlines.  Let your DD manage what she will do when.  She knows best what she can concentrate on in certain frames of mind.

Reduced distractions accommodation is commonly given by sending student to take test in a quieter room with fewer people.  Again, you only need to ask for "reduced distractions accommodation" for assessments.  It's up to the school to figure out how to provide it.  You do not have to tell them with such specificity how to do it.  I guarantee you there are dozens of kids who already get this accommodation at school.  If they provide it in a way that doesn't work, your DD can speak up about it.  (Dear Ms X, I appreciate your giving me reduced distractions for my test.  It turns out the hallway is pretty noisy with everyone going by.  Maybe I can take it in the library or counseling office next time.?)

Seriously, what you ask for is reasonable, but DD could probably use some of the other accommodations suggested (class notes, extra time, etc.). Ask her.  Post in Special Needs.  You will get better support. [/quote]

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