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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not the OP BUT the OP didn't specifically say she never has the urge. She did say she was tired, yes. But honestly, if I were her, that sort of behavior from my husband would not be attractive - at all. He just wants to come home from work to a hot dinner and expects to get laid? No thanks. He doesn't need to write her poems or hire a skywriter, but appreciation through action goes a long freaking way. And THIS is exactly the reason why the sexless marriage whiners on this board won't ever understand that it's not that their wives are dried up - it's that they don't understand that a woman's libido is different then theirs. A crappy husband in a sexy outfit isn't attractive. An amazing husband in sweats is ridiculously hot. It's not a woman's age that diminishes their drive, it's men getting complacent. And I don't want to hear whining about it being complicated because if you care about someone, you want to make them happy. And it's not hard to figure out. If we as females are striving to stay fit and exciting for our husbands, they can make some effort too. [/quote]
It’s been hard to follow OP’s ever shifting story. But let’s presume her most recent post is accurate, and that her husband is a selfish jerk, and that’s why she never wants sex (with him). So why is she still married to this loser? THAT is the problem. Women who happily stay married to jerks. Just leave him. Problem solved.  But don’t stay married, not have sex... AND expect him not to go elsewhere for sex. [/quote]

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