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[quote=Anonymous]I guess I am alone but I think everyone suggesting that grandma be cut out is overreacting before other measures have been take.

It also sounds to me that more than anything else OP is mad at her husband for not agreeing that his parents are behaving badly, which is understandable.

Separate the issues, OP.

First, tell your MIL to knock it off if she wants to see her grand kids. Your husband should do this, yes, but you obviously can’t wait until then so do it yourself for the time being.

Second, tell your husband that it is not his place to judge wether or not you are being “too sensitive.” You don’t want your kids exposed to degrading and racist comments and you will make sure they are not. Tell him that you hope to find an amicable solution to this whole stupid thing but not until they really truly get the message that this needs to stop.

Ignore the moral grand standing posters having orgasms over their self righteousness unless you want to get divorced over something that can almost certainly be fixed if you handle it head on. [/quote]

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