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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you, sweetheart, and sorry to be snide with my question. Sincerely, your story interests me. Did you know that you were marrying a man with low libido?  Do you also have low sexual desire? If not, how do you cope with frustration and stress?
Sex isn't everything, but I think it has a way of softening the edges in a relationship. Affection and touch have that impact, too. 
I know couples in which one has told the other that she no longer desires sex with her mate, and they are still together. At least in their relationship there's been some communication about what one wants and doesn't want, and that's a start.
[b]An end to intimacy without any explanation is terribly sad to me.[/b]

BTW - whoever responded "none of your business" on behalf of a stranger's post: Try counting to three before acting on your impulses.
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An "end to intimacy" .... what does that even mean? Are you talking about a paraplegic or do normal functioning married people also "end intimacy" by simply "explaining" this decision to spouse?

Is that like me deciding I no longer want to "listen about her day" and from now on I only want to talk about mundane logistics. Can I just "explain" this decision and expect she will be cool with that? Should I expect she will still care about all of my important needs (like sex) while I just stop doing hers? Should I expect that, since I don't want to do it any longer, she too will stop wanting to "talk about stuff" with another human being? Should I be surprised when she seeks out another person (like an attractive male "friend") to talk about her day with?[/quote]

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