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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would do everything I could to stay together.  It takes two people to fight and I doubt you’re perfect.  Your life most likely won’t be any better apart and you’re going to be involved with him forever as a result of your child.  Not to mention your husband will get decent custody and you’ll have to live without your baby possibly 50 percent of the time.

I’d do a Hail Mary and be as nice as possible to him.  Quit fighting.  Be pleasant.  Help him out.  Listen to him.  Have sex.  See what happens.  See if his behavior changes.  I realize this isn’t the fair thing to do since it seems like he has been mean to you, but it might be the smart thing to do.

A divorce and custody battle with a young child is not a joke.  Don’t make light of it.  [/quote]

[b]Actually, parents and children in high conflict marriages do better after divorce. [/b]And earlier is probably better, in order to keep the child from a toxic atmosphere. However it does sound like OP will get only 50% custody which is something to think about. [/quote]

OP may be a high conflict person.  There’s no guarantee she’ll do any better.  She’ll probably be trading one set of problems for another and only get to see her child half the time.

If I were OP I’d do my best to get along and kill him with kindness.  [/quote]

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