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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I spent the day feeling good about my decision to get back into the groove of a sex life, and hopefully build some good will in my marriage. But we came home and there was a flood in our kitchen and, while we got it all sorted out, the stress (which he never handles well) left him again speaking to me with such hostility. I would ask a simple, innocent question and be answered with contempt. I'm realizing that this will never get better. Not until our marriage is dead and gone, and he no longer has me and [b]only sees his beloved child every other weekend[/b]. And of course, he will move on and marry again, maybe be a better man with his new wife, and I will spend the rest of my life alone because, after all of this time and stress, I am no longer young and beautiful. I'll eek out a living without saving a penny and struggle to give my kid a decent life. I feel so defeated right now.

Please tell me I can still turn this ship around. Do I just kill him with kindness? Will that inspire him to treat me as a sounding board instead of an emotional punching bag?

Right now I feel like calling his mother and asking her why, why, why did she raise him to think this is normal? [/quote]

:( Why on earth do you think this will be the custody arrangement?  Go get a consult with a few lawyers.[/quote]

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