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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is something you need to deal with directly with your husband. If and when the time comes he can deal directly with his friends to set things straight. [/quote]

This.

Either he truly feels trapped by you...or that he settled...and he's miserable.

Or, he's crazy, immature and socially awkward and thought for whatever reason that pretending he was miserable would garner attention and support from his friends...but he truly is happily married.

Which is it? Honestly, I wouldn't want either scenario.

"WTF Dave? I really don't know what to think. Either you're truly miserable, or you've just been lying to everyone about being miserable...which is it? Honestly, I'm not sure which answer would be better. You've really painted yourself into a corner, and the only person who can fix this is you. What do you plan to do about this?"

Start there and see what he says. Of course, he will probably just tell you that he loves you...but then he'll go away with his friends and complain about you. You've married a liar...a crazy liar. I'm not sure how you bounce back from this, but the least of your worries should be what his friends think a lot you.

I would quietly lawyer up and get my ducks in a row just in case.

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