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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have come to believe that in typical marriages, meaning ones absent abuse, alcoholism, etc., fights don't lead to divorce. It's lack of sex. Which sounds ludicrous but it's really not. I have absolutely noticed that when sex is infrequent and sparse, my husband and I genuinely seem to like each other less. Tempers are shorter, things that are merely annoying seem massively problematic. When sex is regular, all of these things are mitigated. We are more forgiving, we are more closely connected.

It's when sex goes away that small issues mount up and seem impossible to work past. Most average, not abusive marriages that fall apart, I really do believe this, could have been saved had a regular sex life been maintained along the way. [/quote]

+ 1,000,000,000[/quote]

I agree.  My husband withholds sex and when we do have it, he quickly is over and I get no pleasure.  We have sex about 3 times a month and it's not miserable for me about once every 3rd or 4th time.  It creates frustration and sadness.[/quote]

How do you resolve this ?  I have same issue with my husband and I have brought up the issue with my him but no change yet . It is frustrating and sad for sure . [/quote]

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