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[quote=Anonymous]OP, Do NOT spy on your wife. If there is something wrong that will make it worse, not better: if there is nothing going on except that she's too exhausted or depressed to talk, and she discovers you spied on her, you will have damaged your marriage irreparably. If she IS hiding something from you, and she discovers you spied on her, you will also be making it that much tougher for the two of you to repair things.

Just man up and talk to her, for God's sake. When she is home and recovered from travel, say, "Honey, there's something I want to talk to you about. It hurts my feelings and worries me when I can't reach you while you're traveling and you seem to be brushing me off. It has even made me worry that you might be having an affair. Is something going on? If so, please tell me. I would rather know so we can talk about it and figure out whether we can fix whatever's wrong than just be fearing the worst all the time. If I am being completely paranoid, I apologize, but i need some reassurance, and I need to feel, even while you are away, that we are still connected."

Communicate clearly. Don't spy on her.[/quote]

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