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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man, people are nuts.  I'm glad I'm kinda stand-offish.  I don't have a ton of friends, but no one would ever do that to me!![/quote]
I wouldn't have gone to many places if not for friends, I never heard of  "family time" vacations. I am always thrilled if anyone can go to the same place we go. Maybe OP's friend does know that OP is not thrilled. [/quote]

I’m surprised by all of these people that are horrified by the thought of a friend being at the same resort. Do you even like your “friends”?[/quote]

I agree with you! I would be THRILLED if my friends end up at the same vacation; we're not talking about a honeymoon here.  The more, the merrier.

But if you really value your alone time or family time or whatever, then you can also simply establish that they're on their own.  i.e. "That's amazing!! We have a full itinerary; but we'd love it if we could have dinner on __ night. " [/quote]

Same here. I’ve always had so much fun when other people are included. I don’t see what the big deal is meeting up once or twice. I can pretty much guarantee your husband and kids will be dying for someone else to be around by day 4. [/quote]

Do you invite yourself on other people's vacations?  How obnoxious.[/quote]

I know reading is hard but, despite OPs title, the friend did not "invite herself." OP said as much in a follow-up.  She's just annoyed she'll have to interact with someone she knows due to her period of isolation. [/quote]

Oh my God.  OP's friend paid to be at the same place, at the same time, with the intention of hanging out with OP.  You can quibble technicalities all you want, you're not going to win this one.  This is obnoxious as hell at least to a significant portion of the population, and if you don't recognize that, you're rude and tone deaf.  [/quote]

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