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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In ACPS it's gotten ridiculous. I know of two 13 year olds in my son's 6th grade homeroom. They're almost two years older than some of their classmates. I can't believe the school system tolerates it.

These boys could be 19.5 at HS graduation. Think about that.

What I fins amusing is how the parent's narrative has shifted over the years. When the kids were in K, or 1 it was all " Ohh, you're not redshirting him?! You do know that boys mature more slowly, right?! You're denying him an advatage!"

Now, when people give odd looks at the thought of an eighth grader with a learners permit they stay completely mum. It's like theyre embarrassed.[/quote]

Please, this is not redshirting.  If they are going to be 19+ at graduation, they they stayed back for two years.  Rethink your calculations.  Something else is going on here.[/quote]

OP here. Nope. They were not held back. This was intentional. These are white boys of affluent educated parents. The boy in my son's class was born in March of 2005. My son was born in September of 2006. Same grade.  My wife and I loosely run in the same social circle and I have personally heard the mom go on and on about how well little Timmy is doing in middle school. It's cringeworthy and reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where Kramer brags about his karate skills. Turns out he was competing against kids.[/quote]

Redshirting a March birthday boy is a little outside the norm but not by that much. He’ll turn 19 senior year of HS and be 19 at graduation. He’ll turn 20 freshman year of college. Not a huge deal IMO. Just worry about yourself and your own kid. Maybe there was something going on with that child early in elementary that you didn’t know about and he ended up repeating K or something like that. [/quote]

OP stated that they knew the family. The boy was fine, came from a privileged family, and was looking to extend their privilege further by redshirting. This is an actual issue. I don't think anyone has qualms with a disabled kid getting some help but most people do object to people using the 'normal aged kids' as fall guys for their own child's success.[/quote]

You are such an idiot, for most families, redshirting is based on what the parents think is best for their kid.  They are not trying to abuse their white privilege to disadvantage others.  That may be the narrative you want to push, but not the reality for parents facing the decision.  And since soccer is so big in the area, the age benefit is no advantage in travel soccer.[/quote]

Uhh, wrong, lady.

I coach soccer and parents most definitely try and work the registration to their favor. If I had a dollar for every time some pushy 45 year old mom (it's always a mom) tried to tell me 'whats best for their son' (ie letting them on a team with much younger kids) I'd be a rich man. I've had moms submit falsified medical documents in an attempt to get their sons to play down. I don't work in the schools but I'd bet every dollar I have that these same moms try to redshirt their kid there too.

Welcome to the Trump era, where cheating is the new norm.

Oh, and I reported you for name calling. If you can't be civil, go post elsewhere.[/quote]

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