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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a close to sexless marriage and don’t know what to do.  We’ve been married for four years and sex has never been that consistent.  He’s a once a week guy.  He used to drink a lot and couldn’t perform when he’d been drinking.  I was often very frustrated sexually.  Looking back, I should have left.

Then I got pregnant.  He wouldn’t have sex with me while pregnant as he couldn’t stay hard.  I went almost a year not having sex.  Our son is almost a 1.5 and on average we have sex once a month.  I have so much resentment that even if he wanted to have sex, I don’t want to.

Has anyone dealt with this and turned the marriage around?  I don’t even know where to start.

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Have a talk with your husband and get yourselves to a marriage counselor with a sub-specialty in sex therapy.  If you want to save your marriage and improve things, this is where you start.  He'll get help with his performance issues and you'll both learn what the foundational issues are and how to move forward.[/quote]

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