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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry, OP. I’m in a similar situation. DH never highly sexed, definitely has performance issues, and is now on anti-depressants (which is good, and overdue, and has helped a lot with other issues), but our sex life is pretty non-existent. I don’t think of myself as having a super high sex drive— I would be okay with once a week — but I would like sex to not be non-existent. He rarely seems interested; when he briefly shows interest he cant stay hard.

I’m pretty down about it, and definitely wondering how to handle this. That is, can I live with it for another year or so? Indefinitely? Can it change? What could change it? Is the rest of the relationship good enough to make me put up with this? Would I want an open marriage? Etc.  He is a good man and has many wonderful qualities, but he also has a lot of issues that can make marriage difficult even aside from the lack of sex.

We have two teens who adore him, and I guess I am mentally saying to myself, there are four more years with the kids at home, which is four years to see if we can make this better. If we can’t after four years, I think this marriage probably ends when the kids are both in college. [/quote]

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