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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a near-sexless marriage. The truth is we really don't care that much. We both got laid quite a lot before we got married. We are not cheating.

Have you asked her when you can have sex? Sometimes you just have to plan it. Not sexy, but it works. We broke a years-long drought that way.

We both know that neither of us are going to leave the marriage due to lack of sex...but that sounds like a different story than what you are going through.[/quote]
Very few men would "not cheat" in your marriage. It's not even "cheating" to go elsewhere during a years-long drought![/quote]

I'm well aware of that. I'm not worried about cheating. And even if it happened, I would not end a marriage over it. Again, not the norm, I know. (In case you are curious (woman here), recently I am the more interested party.) 
Some health issues, and frankly, we are both just tired. It's really not that big of a deal. [/quote]

I have several close male friends, with whom I have better conversations than I do with DH, who doesn't like to talk much. If he and I weren't having regular, and good, sex, what would be the point of being married? We are in our 50s - how old and out of shape are you both that your sex drives are so low?[/quote]

Neither of us are out of shape. Early 40s. We are married because we have kids. Otherwise, we might not be. That is good enough for me. [/quote]

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