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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married over 30 years and very active, very attracted and both reach orgasm every time. Last night we got it on while our kids were downstairs watching a movie. We easily find time and it's hotter than ever. I would say the worst time sexually in our marriage was when the kids were toddlers, but we still managed 1-2 times/week. They are now MS age.[/quote]

Its great to see input like this.  There are so many people leading lives of quiet despair, have gone places in their lives and minds they never would have imagined, who forget all too quickly why they married their partner and what that institution means.

Marriage is the 'death of self', and having kids is the most final and irrevocable death of self.  But its also the birth of a new entity, one where your needs come second but still exist, and all the intricacies of meeting everyone's needs of life begin to intertwine.  The marriage of two selfish people is a recipe for failure.  Marrying someone who is not hard-work-willing is a recipe for failure.  You can blame it on "evolution" if you want.

Or you can start to find stories about people married 30-40-50 years and still have that spark and activity from when they were young.  And then figure out why, and then develop those traits yourselves.

The answer to the question in the title here is NO.  [/quote]

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