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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By the way, what I wrote above is why chores are so important in a relationship. For 99% of women, as respect for the man dies, so does sexual desire. Pulling your weight around the house, showing initiative, and parenting (instead of acting like a mother’s helper) are all ways of earning back a wife’s respect.

When women come to me complaining their husbands have lost desire, I advise losing weight, dressing better, spicing up the bedroom, getting some fun hobbies to share with DH. And they listen. When men come to me complaining their wife gives them the same look she gives moldy bread, I ask them how the balance of work is around the house. Those who make excuses get told I am not taking on new clients. Those who respond honestly get to brainstorm a list of ways in which they can help out more. After doing that, we discuss how to approach a woman in a masculine, sexy way.  The day your wife wakes up to a clean kitchen with you vacuuming and the kids taken care of, she will realize she has free time and those panties will be wet.

—Sex therapist[/quote]
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Wife is SAHM, I make decent money and I am in great shape 6'1" with a 6 pack and a full head of hair. We were sexless for a couple years, I tried chore play She would come down in the morning house vacuumed, floors mopped, spent all my free time with the kids so she would have a break. None of that worked. It wasn't until I told her I was leaving did she get her libido back. I went back to being more dominate and she told me this is what she always wanted[/quote]

In that line of thought, "The Science of Sex" based of the largest longest running study also found "happiness was the most attractive female emotion expression, and one of the least attractive in males." They are turned off by stable nice guy. Period.

More interesting they found, "they find sexist men more appealing than non-sexist men." Nice guys lose. [/quote]

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