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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why so many people are flaming you. I was in the same position. My husband, a professor, had a fairly light work load, no work during holidays and summer, yet he didn't even meet the bare minimum in cleaning/child care when I was working my tail off. Our kids suffered a lot though they are doing OK as a adults. I agree that you need to lay down the law. I'd start by disappearing for a weekend to get their attention, then taking up cell phones, game systems, cancelling cable and changing Wifi code daily to be given out only when homework and chores are done. Tell your husband your leaving him and the kids if he doesn't buy in.[/quote] OP here. I underestimated how much things were going wrong in the early years. His siblings dropped some hints and I missed them. He is not alright. [/quote]
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