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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Hard no, OP. I'm not the jealous, insecure type at all. My DH and I have been married 30 years. It's less about what your DH's intentions are and all about the situation. People who have been married for a long time understand that everyone feels temptation at some point. You protect your marriage by avoiding situations that could lead to an affair. There is nothing wrong with a guy having a female running buddy. Running 5 days a week together? Red flag. Inappropriate texts? Another red flag. I would be honest. Tell your DH you are uncomfortable. And remember, your intuition is rarely wrong. That's thousands and thousands of years of instinct that you are tapping into. You should always pay attention to that gut feeling.  [/quote]

Yeah, I agree with this.  Been married 25 years and for a while my DH had one female running buddy (a neighbor) that would run with him 5-6 days a week.  I told him it was likely she'd make a move and, sure enough, she did.  DH was shocked that I was right.  He stopped running with her and said, as PPs have noted, that she slowed him down.  They just didn't have the same pace.

FWIW, I'm not opposed to female running buddies.  It's the frequency, length of time and just the two of them that would give me pause.  [/quote]

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