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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I......would put this in the category of "no."

Seems perfectly reasonable to say to DH "Look. I know you like running and I know Stacey is a nice person. And I trust you, but I have to be honest it makes me very uncomfortable that you run with her so often. Would you be willing to stop doing that for me? I don't feel good about it, and if you asked me to stop meeting a male friend 5x a week because it made you feel bad I would like to think I'd honor that."[/quote]
I'm not sure if you are the same PP who often posts advice on how to say something in these threads, but if you are, I'd just like to tell you that you have such a good way of wording awkward or tough conversations. If I were the OP I would be like "Will you PLEASE STOP with the 6 day a week predawn runs with Ms. Hot?" and that would be how I;'d put it. And it wouldn't go well. [/quote]

No matter how you say it, OP is and will come off as accusatory and insecure. And that’s what she is. Because I said before, her husband has given her ZERO indication that something is up. He has a running buddy if the opposite sex. The End. What if he gets partnered up with a hot woman at work?? Gasp! Will OP call his boss to tell him that DH isn’t allowed to fraternize with another female employee?[/quote]

No, suggestive phrase like calling her gorgeous are red flags. That is more than fraternizing[/quote]

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