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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. You don't think it's controlling for him to have this idea in his head of how things are going to go? He's obviously looking for any woman who will fit into his ideal instead of the other way around. I've known guys like this, who go around with a checklist in their heads. I don't think it's a healthy way to approach a relationship.[/quote]

Ok, let's take a step back here.  First, it's not controlling for someone to have an idea of how they would like their life to be! I also don't think we have enough information to assume that he has some sort of "checklist" and is looking for any women who fits his criteria.  Plenty of men are not like that.  My DH had very strong views on his future wife taking his last name, which we discussed from time to time when we were dating. I told him up front that I never wanted to change my name.  Fast forward 15 years, we're still married and I never took his last name! He had an idea of how he wanted things to be but in the end was flexible enough to let go of the idea.[/quote]

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