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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I married at 22, but I don't encourage others to necessarily do the same. I just happen to marry an amazing guy, I saw that he was amazing and I just married him. We took turns getting our degree, I worked while he went to law school, now he is supporting me as I start med school in upcoming year. We won't have kids until early 30s but it has been nice to build something together over the past years.

[b]women shouldn't feel that they CANT get married early if they want to be ambitious but one must (!) marry the right guy.[/b]

The biggest risk to marry young is marrying a douche bag who doesn't allow a woman to get her education, so you may be left in late twenties with kids and no way to support them. [/quote]

This is so true.  I remember my freshman year of college I met a great guy but in my mind I was too young to be tied down and there were all these other guys to date.  Then by my junior year when I was ready to be in a relationship, there was really no one I wanted to date that had that same mindset.  So I do think part is mindset of being open to love and not thinking oh, I HAVE to sow my wild oats.  Don’t be afraid to be alone or break up if the relationship isn’t working but also don’t be afraid to go for it if you do meet someone amazing while you are in your 20’s.[/quote]

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