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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]jeeezus krist, give me a break,  self loathing etc?

there is way too much thinking going on here.  I'm a white blue-eyed woman and I've always been attracted to brown eyes.  It's just my thing.  Could be any race but must have brown eyes.

I don't go around worried about some deep seated self loathing I may have about myself as a blue-eyed person.

It's probably more like that I imprinted on Ricky Ricardo at a young age.

Girls tend to imprint on a type....maybe there was some man in your life (or on TV) that made a positive impression on you as someone who would be a great mate.[/quote]

I think you mean well, but being attracted to brown eyes isn't anywhere near the same as marrying interculturally. Not even close. Now I think OP is being a little dramatic an you can count me in the camp of  if she married her husband for the right reasons she shouldn't be embarrassed and she should have thought about how they would balance things in their home to raise their kids with two cultures.[/quote]

Its obvious op didnt marry her husband for the right reasons since she said that the deep seated racism in her and friends pushed them to marry white and now she feels guilt. Maybe she pushed away indians or other minorities to date and only dated white.[/quote]

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