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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]let me translate OPs post....

"She thought they would snap at teach other and then be civil" means[u] she thought that she should instigate an argument in public wit the kids and he would be trapped into the situation because they were in public[/u]. He chose to leave a situation which was manipulative. Good for him.[/quote]

What the F? Why is everyone blaming OP for instigating and intending to berate her DH w/ no consequences? The misogyny on here is unbelievable.  It's just as likely her DH over-reacted or was an ass. As he acted like an ass by leaving, I'm inclined toward that conclusion.[/quote]

I am not "blaming" OP.  People are so quick play the blame and the victim game.  We were not there and OP's DH cannot defend himself.  However, I do not think that walking away from an escalating public fight is "being an ass"  based on what the OP is said. OP thought they could fight and then calm down as if nothing happened.  Maybe he was in a different place and was about to say something out of pocket.  They only thing I would "blame" OP for is making this one instance a referendum on him and their marriage.  [/quote]

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