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No offense man but does believing in this nonsense demonstratively get you laid anymore than it did when you were a "nice" guy?  I have a friend like this that spouts this crap off all the time and you can just hear the loathing behind the words in how he talks about women.  I know this type of thing works on emotionally damaged/ immature girls but do you honestly believe this is the route to landing a nice, attractive and kind partner?  [/quote]

I tend to believe it, but I'm not changing my behavior. Even if being a dick gets you laid, I don't want to be that guy because, in the final analysis, getting laid isn't as important to me as a lot of other things I value. I'm a good husband and a good Dad. My wife and I have a very friendly relationship. But, no, we're not having much sex. That's obviously a sample size of one and, therefore, not of much value. But studies like the one I cited square with my observations, particularly back in the days when I was dating, of the types of guys that women seemed to be hooking up with and the types of guys that they didn't seem to be hooking up with.  I also experienced the phenomenon where, the less interested I was, the more attractive I seemed to be. Maybe it's confirmation bias at work, but I tend to believe this study. The traits that lead to long-term stability aren't exciting and, therefore, don't inspire sexual interest in women. [/quote]

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