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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Screenshot the evidence and email to yourself save the email and print a copy.

Go see a lawyer today.  Make sure you now rights and responsibilities of a husband towards a child born n the marriage.

MD isn't the only state with effed up paternity laws.[/quote]

What is the deal with all the people saying that OP needs to collect all of this evidence? Will he get more of her money when he divorces?[/quote]

Cheaters often deny the affair when you confront them.  My cheating spouse told me many, many lies. I'm glad I saved evidence and journaled everything or his gaslighting would have made me doubt my own memory and impressions and would have made me crazy.   Keeping the evidence allowed me to finally piece together the puzzle of what was really happening. Had I not uncovered the whole truth, I might have been inclined to 50/50 custody, but once I understood that the cheating was reflective of some pretty deep pathology, I insisted on full custody with only daytime visits for him.  Since, I had extensive evidence on his behaviour, evidence hevwouldn't have wanted me to share with others, he did not fight me either on custody nor on being the one to leave the house.

What I learned from the experience is that people who tell such big lies, don't change and continue to lie about other stuff.  I continue to joirnal his behaviour and frequently refer back to notes and records when he lies or goes back on his word.

Unless you've been there, I think it's hard to understand the crazy-making effect of living in contact with someone who is a frequent liar.[/quote]

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