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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you think it's a fling, or primarily sexual? Or does there seem to be an emotional component as well? [/quote]

Not this pp, but these are good questions.

MHO, if it's not your baby, ditch ASAP.  Be kind and take the high road.  Stress isn't good for the baby, even if if isn't yours.

If it's your baby.  Do you love her?  Obviously, you can't trust her right now, but love and trust and a lot of other components Uma marriage can ebb and flow.  I have two sets of married friends who have weathered storms.  I'm a DW and both of the DWs cheated.  One couple had kids and the other didn't.  Both couples went to counseling and. Oth now have better marriages.  This blew my mind a bit in the beginning, but now I'm very proud of how everyone focused on the future and forgiveness and making amends and maturity and love, etc.

Gauge based on many things whether you think this is some effed up way could strengthen your marriage Lin-term.  If I were you AND it was in fact my kid and she is mortified and wants to try and she's sane and kind and wonderful otherwise, I'd find a really good therapist and invest in my family.

Huge hugs!  And get tested for STDs

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