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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus, you PPs are harsh.  Consider all of the posts on DCUM about fathers not being interested in their kids, or even mothers fretting over not bonding with their babies.  Detachment can happen with parents who planned on having kids and here we have a guy who found out a few months ago that he fathered a child with a woman he barely knew.  He's approaching this from a distance because he's been kept at a distance and has had no chance to develop an emotional attachment with this child.  I don't think OP lack of emotion about this means he's a sociopath.  I think it's quite understandable given the situation.[/quote]

+1 the child is still an abstract to him. Do I think he could be more interested? Of course. But this is a huge, huge choice that was a) made for him and b) hidden from him intentionally so I don't blame him for being analytical and cautious.

And for all of the PPs who are being self-righteous about condoms, sex outside of a committed relationship, etc...I'm sure you've all been perfect. Most likely, you've just been lucky. [/quote]

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