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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, here is another anecdote. DH started working from home and stopped working out. There were stretches of time where he wore the same clothes, did not shower, brush his hair for 3 days at a time. Finally, I gently told him that I felt like he was not making an effort and that the message I got was that he did not care what I thought or whether I found him attractive. He realized he was in a rut, and he stepped it up again. No, he does not need to dress up to work at home, but basic hygiene and clean clothes were important. He also lost 30 lbs and looks amazing and I appreciate that he strives to maintain attractiveness to me. It does not mean that I love/loved him less when he was kind of a slob, but it did bug me. [/quote] I have responded before. To this I would say, why are you focusing on him? A plausible explanation is so you don't have to focus on yourself.[/quote]
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